My brother is in a band, he lives in California and tours all year long. I went to visit him when he played in his hometown and his performance was truly amazing, he has had several appearance on MTV. I was quite shocked as the night went on all of the woman that were trying to hang all over him, he was completely fine with it.
At the end of the night we were driving back to his house and he made a discreet phone call to some woman, not his girlfriend. He then instructed me to drop him off at some high class hotel and informed me that he was going to see his gay fuck buddies and not to let his girlfriend know. I dropped him off and was on my way completely shocked and never brought up that conversation with him again.